Month: March 2024

Spend less time with family for better relationships

Quality over quantity. We have all heard that before. But what does that really mean?

Of course, the literal meaning of it is that focus on quality time instead of just spending time “together” with loved ones. And that I agree with.

But I would go a step further and say that try to not spend All of the time together with close family and friends. Time apart and space is necessary for the bonds to become stronger and the quality of your interactions will be at a much higher level when you do come together after being apart for a while.

“Even lovers need a holiday, far away from each other“
https://youtu.be/liG0mxlZao0?si=YJk7X9WwlSHr3532

You always get what you need when you need it

This title is a quote by Bob Proctor. Very insightful.

The way I think about it is when something becomes a need, you will always find a way to fulfill that need whatever that might be.

But only if it’s an actual need.

On the other hand, if you really want something, you may or may not get your wish fulfilled no matter how badly you want it.

So what do you do when you really really want something?
You move it from the category of want to need. You convince yourself of the need.
Then let the universe take over and guide you with every action you take from there onwards.

Forget about the audience

To do your best work, you gotta forget about the audience.

Just like any tournament you participate in, any competition you compete in, if you focus on what will the audience think of you, you are for sure to not do your best because now you’re thinking about how others perceive of you instead of going for your best effort.

It’s the same with life. If you just focus on your activities, your mission, your effort, instead of worrying about others, you will feel a lot more satisfaction at the end.

Let others think about the audience and be limited. You do “You” and what’s in your hand and watch the magic unfold.